Thursday, June 11, 2009

tout passe, tout lasse, tout casse

John's been doing all the posting lately. For the past month I've spent my spare minutes helping people with finances, putting together a baby shower, trying to make progress on the home improvement, and enjoying going out as much as possible. Last week, though, it seemed like we had an unusual amount of.... stuff that reminded me of the title of this post (tr.=Everything passes, everything wears out, everything breaks.).

Camy cut tooth #7. She just started sleeping at night again.


Macy is working on teeth #4 and 5. They both like biting our knees and shoulders.


Macy discovered cookies (new family rule: No food in the car or car seats)



The garage door bit the top of our car (added emphasis on existing family rule: No playing Indiana Jones while driving)


In addition to the ants everyone else has, we had a visitor with 6 legs and a body over an inch long. John was working late, so I saved the day- half the bug almost escaped. (Sorry, Kate. No picture)


The GPS fell off the window.




After a miserable trip to the store, we got in the car to find we had only 3 of the 4 ridiculously expensive shoes that we started the trip with.




All in all, not a bad week.

Wednesday, June 03, 2009

Rule #3: Don't feed them after midnight

Many years ago, before John and I were married, we would drive 3 hours each way to visit each other. After a long drive John would be very tired, and I learned that when John is very tired he says crazy things. It's been a while, but last night we had a great chat. (John has been playing a lot of board games and reading about GM)


J: I'm worried we are going to end up on a dead end in the board. With three people, one of them should know where the dead ends are.
E: Yeah, why's that?
J: I don't know. It seems like once you have three pegs, though, you should be able to triangulate.
E: And we have four pegs!
J: Yeah, three pink ones. One thing the game of life teaches is that it's easier to have a station wagon from the start. I mean, before you even start college, you've already got a station wagon. And a convertible one! No one even makes convertible station wagons. GM should have thought of that. They made cup holders.
E:Yeah, maybe GM wouldn't be in so much trouble.
J: Yeah, convertible station wagons for everyone once you finish high school. I don't think a station wagon would fit in our garage though.
E: True.

Monday, May 18, 2009

Camy doing the worm

Here are some of Camy's first efforts at crawling:

The audio in the background is provided by Macy, who is gnawing on a vinyl carrying case for her blocks.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Yet another laughing baby video

These types of videos can be found in spades on the internet. I guess I will throw our first one into the fray. Here is Camy getting a kick out of styrofoam:

In other news, Camy has become deceptively mobile (no visible crawling, but she just ends up in places you wouldn't expect). If you like to read on the floor, don't leave you reading material there, or she will find it:

She loves paper. So much so that it has lead to one of our first family rules: no eating checks greater than $5.

Friday, May 08, 2009

Blue Eyes

Both girls have blue eyes. Macy's (left or top, depending on your window size) are darker blue. Camy's are baby blue. The picture of Camy's eye is a little older. You can start to see some dark spots come in around the edge of the iris. Those have gotten darker/larger since the photo.

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Video

The girls are starting to move more, which makes video a little more relevant now than a few weeks ago. Here are a few. Welcome to the world of unedited amateur video:

Trying out the new shoes that Edna made for the girls, they play typical rolls in this video: Macy screams, Camy plays around with Macy.

In this video both girls try screaming.

Of the two Macy is the more developed screamer. Fortunately she has not found that full throttle scream yet, but you can hear her searching for it. It will come.

When not screaming, Macy trains as a cage fighter. Here she is practicing on her doll/punching bag, Emily. The real-time video looks about as erratic as the time-lapse video.

Camy recently discovered her shadow - curious things they are.

Here is another time-lapse Macy video playing in the toy Mona & Bryant sent us.

Tuesday, April 07, 2009

SWINGS!

The girls sit up now, so they can play on swings at the park! Here are the first few seconds of the soon to be hours these two spent on swings. (Cam on left, Macy on right)


Monday, April 06, 2009

Budget Clarification and Girls: Month 5

Budget Clarification

John and I get many budgeting and personal finance comments. Over the last few years, most of these comments have been directed toward John, with comments of pity toward me for being constrained by John's budget. Those who have know us longer, however, know that I am more to blame for our frugality and budgeting. Before we were married John's budget consisted of about three categories which were the following: Income, "Livables", and Other. John has tried repeatedly to explain to me what "livables" is and is not, but I am still baffled. Roughly, I think "livables" is any expense that his dad would have reimbursed him for, years ago. I'm sure he'd love to explain the concept to all who are curious.

So I do the accounting and most of the spending, though our overall finances are a team effort and are openly discussed quarterly. We've decided to base our budget on what we feel like we need rather than on what we earn. We're budgeting nerds because we like it.....and I always love finding ways to save money.


Girls: Month 5

This past weekend was an especially fun one for me. John and I alternate which baby we take when John is home, and because this weekend was our church's General Conference we were both home most of Saturday and Sunday. So I had just Camy all day Saturday and just Macy all day Sunday, with very few distractions. I loved finally having some good one-on-one time with each of my daughters. They were both sweet and fun.


I realize that no one is quiet as infatuated with these girls as I am, but here are more pictures anyway. I also realized that not everyone can tell which girl is which, so I labeled them this time.


Macy (L) and Camy (R)
Camy (L) and Macy (R)


The girls still love to chomp on each other's head, which is more dangerous now since each of them have teeth.


Macy

Macy continues to enjoy splashing. I don't feel so bad about our water damamged countertop since we are planning on replacing it...someday. She is very sweet and silly and enjoys all sorts of noise.





Macy with Uncle "Fav" who visited us for a week



Camy

Camy is still a wonderful, happy girl. Her latest development is that she likes to punch herself repeatedly in the head. I took a video to document this just in case we are questioned by child services. She loves to touch things.



This picture reminds me of an artsy ad for a purse that I saw a few years ago.



Camy and Papa reading the news together....she obviously inherited my habit of reading over John's shoulder.

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Are the babies on budget?

The girls turned 5 months old this weekend. As part of that milestone, I wanted to answer a question that some of my friends ask me: are the babies on budget?

Of course they are – 53% below budget in fact. Well… kind of. The only explicit forecasted budget we had was for diapers. We came across this site: http://tinyurl.com/5bbxrg, which seemed to have reasonable numbers. Edna has whittled down purchases by buying in bulk (we are talking months at a time), and the girls have taken to frugality in diapers like ducks to water. So both price and volume are doing better than expected.

But diapers are only 20% of our total cost since inception. Equipment was 40%, clothes 20%, Food 10% and the lots of other things for the last 10% (see Exhibit 1). The trick to budgets here is economies of scale (i.e., does it cost 2x as much to have two, or just a little more). We didn’t set a specific budget for these categories, but looking around the USDA, and MSN, here is a guess on where they stand.

On equipment the girls are 10% below budget for one child, or 55% below budget if you assume two kids takes twice the stuff. One great perk of living out East is that moms have their kids later in life. After having twins, they don't plan on a another set and are happy to sell you top-of-the line stuff, two at a time, at bargain-basement prices. So being connected with the Mothers of Multiples here has helped quite a bit.

These fiscally fit girls took it even one step further: they have also been self-financing so far. If you take the budget surpluses from the recreation and dining out categories (because its a lot harder to get out with the girls), we have broken even across those categories and the baby expenses. Who said children were expensive? Go team.

The girls are also 17% below budget on clothes, and 83% below budget on food (which probably assumes formula where we did not have that cost). The clothes are a little embarrassing because the other reason he girls are so fiscally mature for their age is you. The many, many gifts we received were not included in the numbers. Thanks again, I still have many of you on my thank-you list, which is getting older every month that passes by.

Saturday, March 07, 2009

Valentines, eating, teeth, and splashing

Valentines

This Valentine's day the girls and I made John a Valentine. Since most of our days are quickly consumed with eating, cleaning, and playing, the girls and I took just over two days to get this done.


The girls opened presents for the first time.


Eating

And we started feeding the girls solids. This is how they each reacted. Things are going much better now.


Teeth

The theme of the family this week is teeth. John and I both went to the dentist after a two year hiatus, and Macy cut her first tooth last Saturday with her second appearing a day later. Here she is Saturday night with just one tooth. No teeth for Camy, but she likes her feet


Splashing

For the last few weeks I've been waiting for Macy to start splashing in the bath. That girl has so much spunk that I expected that she would enjoy splashing. It turned out I was right. Last night I was about to pull the plug on the bath when she gave a few little kicks that quickly progressed to flailing arms and legs, and soon we had a half empty tub and a wet kitchen. She had so much fun that I just had to laugh with her and leave the mess for later.


And here are the girls dressed up for church. I think that smile shows about how much Macy enjoyed her bath. Camy is a very smiley girl, but not for cameras.